UPDATE 9/9/11: Peter’s Polar Parlor may have discontinued Dole Whips per a reader comment below. BUT, see the list below — and the comments section — for updates on where other readers have found Dole Whip throughout the USA!
Believe it or not, Dole Whip — that delicious frozen treat that is the true Disney food for many of us — can be found in many other places around the country.
Scott Thomas, who runs the legendary website PSCalculator.net, told me a few months ago that his area has several spots that serve Dole Whip. These include Peter’s Polar Parlor near the New York State Fairground:
Peter's Polar Parlor in New York State
Peter's Polar Parlor Sign
Scott says he’ll send “proof” photos of the Dole Whips in the Spring; right now all of the ice cream places are closed for the winter…brr!!! 
Now, about a month or so after Scott told me that New York State was riddled with Dole Whips, I was thrilled to see my very own outside-of-Disney-parks Dole Whip during my first trip to Hawaii!
These are from Zack’s in Kaua’i:
Zack's Dole Whip Decorative Tile
Zack's Dole Whip Sign
Zack's Dole Whip Menu
And Kilohana Grill in the San Francisco East Bay area (San Ramon) has just started serving Pineapple Dole Whip (as of June 2011).
Note: You can also purchase Dole Whip Mix online and make your own…but I think it’s always more fun to buy one from a vendor!
Where Else Can You Find Dole Whips?
Have you found Dole Whip somewhere other than Orlando or Anaheim? Let me know! We’ll make sure that other Dole Whip lovers know if there’s a hidden Dole Whip lurking in their backyards! Here’s what we’ve heard from other readers so far:
Got this email from Barbara R.:
“Boy Blue Dairy Treat Stores in Wisconsin carry Dole Whips. I have also ordered the Dole Whip mix from Hawaii and made it in my ice cream maker. Delish!!!”
“Dole Whip can be found at peachwave yogurt. It looks like they have locations in many states. I have had it several times at the Beaverton, OR location.”
http://www.peachwaveyogurt.com/locations/
“Mom & Pop’s Cone Corner in New Albany, IN sells the Dole Whip. I believe they are closed for the winter.”
“My husband and I have had the dole whip at our Indiana State Fair. We had the orange dream whip flavor. yummy!!!!”
More in the comments section!
Martha’s Dandee Creme in Queensbury, New York carries Dole flavors. It’s right across the street from Six Flags Great Escape. We go to Lake George for vacation every year and Martha’s has always had the best ice cream and it’s 10 times better with Dole whips!
They are a seasonal shop and rotate their flavors but they provide a flavor calendar that can be found on their website:
http://www.marthasicecream.com/
Pete’s polar parlor in syracuse ny has pineapple as of July 2012 and aslo Emma’s in lake placid NY as of 2011
Many places in Syracuse NY have orange and raspberry dole whip including chuck hafners and thee diner and big dip. Pineapple, my favorite is harder to come by. Peters polar parlor has pineapple as of july 2012, they said they only carry it for a short time over the summer though. Also Emma’s in lake placid NY had it last year 2011 when I visited.
Storyland in Glen, NH has Dole Whip. I had pineapple and think they had orange there too.
http://www.storylandnh.com/food.html
Jump-n-Jacks in Scotia, NY has had Dole Whip for years. It comes in several flavors but mine is still PINEAPPLE!!
Dutch Wonderland in Lancaster, PA has a Dole Whip stand! First I’d ever heard of it, and first time my milk allergic 4 year old has ever been able to enjoy a soft serve “ice cream” cone. We were thrilled! Mmmm!
Guess I should’ve read all the other replies before my post!
Dole Plantation in O’ahu, Hawai’i has Dole Whip
We took the family to Noah’s Ark water park in Wisconsin Dells, WI and to our delete they serve Dole Whips. They tasted just as good at Disney, so good we any back for seconds.
I had my first Dole Whip this summer at Dutch Wonderland in Lancaster, PA
Mom & Pop’s Cone Corner in New Albany, IN sells the Dole Whip. I believe they are closed for the winter.
Dole Whip can be found at peachwave yogurt. It looks like they have locations in many states. I have had it several times at the Beaverton, OR location.
http://www.peachwaveyogurt.com/locations/
Daisy delight in Jefferson City, MO has Dole Whip. They usually do a different flavor daily but I have gotten pineapple there on several occasions.
dole whips are at Moolicious in southwick ma
Good ‘ol Jim’s Tastee Freez here in Delmar, NY has it! http://www.yelp.com/biz/jims-tastee-freez-delmar
They have Pineapple Dole Whip at Kelly’s Creme on Revere Beach in Revere MA. I got one 2 days ago and it was so good.